After I grew up in Brooklyn, NY, I felt unafraid of anything or anyone because if you can handle yourself there, for sure you can handle yourself anywhere.  I feel this is important to share because I want all kids to know that if they learn early in life to stand up for themselves, it will be a life lesson that will support them well the rest of their lives.

Give your kids permission to look other kids square in the eyes when they’re being picked on and say, “Knock it off…or else!” They need to stand up for themselves, because bullies want to make others look and feel like they’re nothing.

While I’m proud to say I never took advantage of anyone, I did give as good as I got which was a lesson a few bullies had to learn.  For the rest of my life I kept that calm assurance of confidence inside of me which served me well. 

Happy to give you my tip for having a good life!

Larry

02/07/10